It's a Wrap.... What will you do with it now?
We Can't Do It Alone - Robert D. Hales - discussion led by Roberta Sherman
Roberta explained that this lesson is doctrinal but not well documented...
We are not alone in this life...We are all daughters of Heavenly Father who loves us and because He does not expect us to be alone or do this life alone, He has given us a family.
We can't do it alone, we require others in our lives for guidance, nurture, love, security, strength.
Elder Hales said: "Because we are not perfect, we need others - we need to be as self-sufficient as we can, but not independent of others.
When we attempt to do it our own we can fail... No one is so rich they don't need help, and no one so poor they can't offer help.
"When we are in the service of our fellow beings, we are only in the service of our God."
What have you learned from serving?
Sister's answers:
- The spirit can guide you in ways to serve.
- Sometimes your service can't "fix" things for someone, but you can be a listening ear.
- The Spirit will confirm the importance of service.
Why is it so hard to receive service?
Sister's answers:
- We feel bad that someone else has to sacrifice for us.
- We don't want to feel like we've failed at something.
- Pride
- We don't realize that the service giver is blessed also.
- We don't feel worthy of someone's service.
- We feel vulnerable and feel like you're not in control.
Satan's tools are used to isolate us from one another in order to make us feel depressed, sad, empty and in a dark place.
We need to be able to open up and share our struggles with each other so we can receive light and love.
As we call on Heavenly Father for help, it usually comes through our service to one another.
What blessings do we receive from accepting service?
Sister's answers
- People love who they serve...the more we serve the more we love.
- The same goes for Heavenly Father, the more we serve Him the more we love Him.
- We build new friendships.
- We break down barriers.
- Our pride is stripped away.
- We learn to understand when those around us need service.
- We become less defensive.
We need to look to Christ as our example of service. We should serve as he served. We are the angels he uses to strengthen others in their struggles. He is aware of us and we are never forgotten. He will bless us, but sometimes we need to ask for help.
Council Action:
Choose something you feel powerless over and give it to our Savior, Jesus Christ.
In addition to this find one way to come to know Christ better.
Upcoming Council or Discussion
Nov 4th - Yvonne Rodabough will lead the council. She has asked that each of us come prepared to share some of your inspiration and impressions we received from our recent general conference.
No birthdays this month...go help someone have a good day!
Upcoming Events - Mark your calendars
Nov 1st, 7:30 pm - 9:00 PM Elder's Quorum and their wives activity: Spend an evening of Discovery at the Lehi Family Search Centerr - 3201 Garden Drive, Lehi, Utah. You will need to have your LDS Account User Name and Passwword and/or your LDS Membership Number with you to enter the World of Discovery at the Center. This will be an awesome event.
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Ministering to the Sisters
Watch for sign ups for your Ministering Interviews during the month of November. Please sign up as soon as possible, so we can counsel together about how to better serve the sisters you minister to.
Making Ministering Interviews Meaningful
In supporting President Russell M. Nelson’s statement that the ministering program will be a hinge point on which the course of the Church will swing, Elder Gary E. Stevenson of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles taught, “The realization of his vision … might be predicated upon how well ministering brothers and sisters are taught and engaged in the ministering interview.”
Four tips for ministering brothers and sisters:
- Go to the interview seeking counsel. Be ready to learn.
- Be prepared to discuss needs that you may need help meeting.
- Focus on the individual’s strengths and abilities, not just needs.
- Contact the presidency to counsel between quarterly interviews as needed.
Ministering Interviews
These quarterly interviews between ministering sisters and the Relief Society presidency or ministering brothers and the elders quorum presidency are the only formal report we make regarding those we minister to. The interview is an opportunity on at least a quarterly basis to (1) counsel about the strengths, needs, and challenges of assigned families and individuals; (2) determine what needs the quorum, Relief Society, or ward council might assist with; and (3) learn from leaders and be encouraged in ministering efforts.
The elders quorum president and the Relief Society president communicate important needs directly to the bishop and will receive counsel and direction from him.
"A new name, new flexibility, and fewer reports will not make one ounce of difference in our service unless we see this as an invitation to care for one another in a bold new holier way."
MINISTERING WEBSITE
Prayers for....
Please keep Sharai Layton and her family in your prayers...let's all put our faith together and fast for her next Sunday.
Pray or those you minister to...
Do you know of anyone in need of our prayers? Please contact a presidency member.
Service Opportunities
Take a moment and drop a letter or a card to one of our missionaries:
Sister Ellie Ross
Santa Rosa CA Mission
5301 Badger Rd
Santa Rosa, CA 95409
ellie.ross@myldsmail.net
Elder Ethan Graham
Taipei Taiwan Mission
ethan.graham@myldsmail.net
Sister Jordan Fitting
California Ventura Mission
3301 W Gonzales Rd
Oxnard, CA 93036
jordan.fitting@myldsmail.net
Sister Ellie Ross
Santa Rosa CA Mission
5301 Badger Rd
Santa Rosa, CA 95409
ellie.ross@myldsmail.net
Elder Ethan Graham
Taipei Taiwan Mission
ethan.graham@myldsmail.net
Sister Jordan Fitting
California Ventura Mission
3301 W Gonzales Rd
Oxnard, CA 93036
jordan.fitting@myldsmail.net
Every Tuesday 10:00 - 11:15
Stake Center (Tanner Lane)
Bring your scriptures
No babysitting
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